You have a different perspective at 39, trust me. If Jinger only has a couple kids, she might feel left out later as she gets into her thirties. But she also might feel the same relief she probably felt the entire first year of marriage when her sisters were adjusting to the role of new wife and new mom simultaneously, and all she had to do was cook for two, gaze and Babe and turn her ass up to him every night. Doesn’t sound like a bad place to be to me. She will probably thank herself when she is older and so are her kids, while Jessa, Joy, Kendra, Lauren, and Anna are still getting up in the middle of the night, changing diapers and breastfeeding until their nipples turn to shoe leather. Her home will be much nicer, cleaner and quieter, and she’ll have opportunities to do things they won’t like travel all over without a stroller and diaper bag in tow (according to my sister once you get past that phase mentally, you don’t want to go back). I’m also sure Jessa will try to make her feel about it while she secretly envies Jinger’s higher standard of living and less-strained marriage.