Jesse is abusive and controlling. Darcey is walking on egg shells around him. She needs to run. He flipped from a mean and crazy-eyed lunatic to acting loving, back to asshole. He seems to try to hold in his rage and acts very controlled and tense then loses it. The signs were there early in the relationship. Also on the video chat they showed in the finale he cut her off and said something like, "can I talk?" which seemed overreacting with anger. Jesse is way too controlling with telling her to never drink again. A couple glasses of wine with her sister is reasonable. It was sad to me how Darcey continued to take his abuse when they walked out and she wanted to be quiet and appease him by wearing his jacket. She wants to speak up for herself, saying things like "This is getting ridiculous" and "Maybe I should spend the last 20 years of my life being wined and dined." The rollercoaster ride / abuse gets old quick. I actually thought for a minute she might see the light and break up during the tell all. I hope she sees her worth and leaves this asshole before her self-esteem gets any lower. I wonder what her daughters think of him.