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Dimi1

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  1. Alyssa posted to IG -- a poll asking followers what they wanted to see...I never respond because I do not want to be blocked...of course I wanted to...but is was a miss mash...do we want to see fashion, outings etc...WE WANT to SEE...Allie take Ballet and the others do little home improvement projects or do volunteering at a vets office...we want to SEE YOUR GIRLS....do SOMETHING......and Alyssa looks 6 shades of exhausted...Rhett is a year old now...my personal opinion is the pregnancy with Rhett took something out of Alyssa due to her heart issues...and she has not recovered...lets really hope she puts the brakes on no more babies and enjoys the kids she has...but alas --BROTHER...
  2. Also wanted to add...the party is not the problem...it is a symptom of the problem...boys are better/ more valuable/ more wanted - than girls...also some of the girls are more wanted than other girls... poor kids grow up without having individual parties, birthday cakes etc....but...if the poor kids are loved, valued, given attention with words and actions...they have a better chance of turning out better than kids with "things" but no love...I read a study once on Chronic post traumatic stress syndrome...have you ever wondered why some people have it and some people do not...those who had grown up in a loving family tend to be able to process trauma through a loving lense...as in " they have the memory of coming back to the love they were given as children"...so fancy parties don't matter...what matters is what was said to them, what was shown to them, what value they were given daily....the issue with A and J...is the they treat all their kids differently valuing one more than the other...all have roles to fulfill ...( google dysfunctional family systems)....and all the roles are for the purpose of maintaining the facade of a perfect family for outsiders...and orange given to a child can have all the specialness from a parent if it is given in love ..vs .. a party that is over the top with cakes and costumes...
  3. Because Allie is non compliant to alyssa's agenda...Allie is the scapegoat of the family...I think Allie does not perform for the camera...I have seen her being aggressive toward the other kids...grabbling thinks first etc...because Allie cannot perform for the camera - she gets less focus...it will go one of two ways with Allie..either she will continue to rebel/ act out or she will fabricate a personality to please Alyssa...lets hope she continues to buck that whole system...also note...it is the "scapegoats" that "see" what is wrong in a family ...it is the scapegoats that will not maintain the "show" for the public --- the show meaning -- what is presented to the public - vs - what really goes on behind closed doors....so go Allie...go Allie....lets hope she has enough exposure to be around people who value her for who SHE is...that speak into her ...
  4. Alyssa has pics up on her IG..they spared no expense for Rhett with a banner, matching t-shirts etc...I compared it to Allies Bday - the one with the ballerina theme....I did not see any family there...but did see some other pics..not sure who the kids were as they all had towels on their head...ala getting ready I guess for the princess party or whatever it is they are doing
  5. I have been to some other sites...meh...this reminds me of how I felt when I used to frequent a site called..beauty buzz...it was all about make up , but I was there for over 20 years ...the digger comments are down..and the bates thread is down too....I think everyone one at this point is just scared to post as we don't know what the problem is....so its typing tenderhooks on the keyboards...
  6. my concern is for Tessie...she is going to have a permanent hunch..someone should teach her to stand up straight....
  7. I am doing well...pcos is a frustrating thing to deal with..but manageable...I think the guys name is Marty with Data driven fasting..and his wife is type 1 and has an insulin pump....so there should be good info there...
  8. I am not diabetic - but PCOS ( although diabetes runs heavily through family) I do watch two guys on insta...one the insulin resistant guy - who eats and then tracks it on his glucose monitor - and then data driven fasting- his wife is diabetes 1...I find them both very interesting as far as how which foods increase insulin...
  9. Alyssa posted a vid on YouTube...she visits her grandparents with Rhett and John takes care of the girls....since we are in PT red flag jail Im not sure what I can and cannot say...so just go have a look for yourself...
  10. I live in the south..not too far south...more at the split of the ohio river....and I can tell you...the north as far as culturally has so much more to offer...I have travelled to New York city many times and LOVED it...to live so close and want to move south is beyond me....then to live close to PA and all that has to offer....I've been to atlanta, chattanooga, nashville an all around the area...and would much rather visit NY...My son lived in NY for 5 years and I got to know it pretty well...and miss it...
  11. could be...but I think it has to do with her heart issues/health...those girls have been trained to have babies, stay at home/ home school... so they know no different... so far - Michael, Erin, Carlin, Alyssa and Josie have health issues...can't remember if there are others...it really is a shame to push your body like that as a young women...it seems they are tolerating it in their 20's...but eventually time takes it's toll....
  12. I could care less about the duggers, I am here for the rods...and I wonder what caused the red danger zone...I have perused Free Jinger and am on reddit...
  13. Alyssa made an IG post asking if her audience wanted to see a grocery haul...NO and NO...secretly record a fight with John, Let allie take ballet and give that spicy kid..the girl with the attitude..what is her name...lol..let that kid play some girls softball..and then I'm all in...will it happen...no ..instead I guess we will see what kind of chicken nuggets she buys...and she still looks so wiped out..no sparkle...like she is absolutely phoning it in at this point...
  14. I am dismayed about this....although I have no dog in the fight..lol...to me, Katie is way too unsure and insecure for " Travis - the superstar" ...Katie is gorgeous but comes across as very insecure/lacking in self confidence etc....I think this could be a disaster in the making...I mean what could go wrong...Katie attached to her family in Knoxville with baby 1 and baby 2 on the way - and travis be a partying with the groupies hanging outside the studio in Nashville??? mmm...this may not end well...throw Evan in the mix -- with a brother who just cheated/divorced...and not good , not good...
  15. a better song for the fam --" we are the pirates who don't do anything"...I adore veggie tales...
  16. Something is wrong with Alyssa...she looks really puffy in her latest video with her kids at the library...I know she has had heart issues in the past...She looks bad and she looks like she feels bad..and in the video- Allie - who it Rhetts sister mom...is now being seen watching rhett at the library and watching rhett out in the yard...I bet she watches him all the time - if its now "instinctual" to take care of him...Alyssa is doing the same thing to her as Kelly did to all her girls...so so sad....for those girls sake and for the sake of Alyssa's health I really hope she does not have anymore kids...I mean really what is it going to take for the Bates girls to take their health seriously...a death? with all of their health issues..Erin, Alyssa, Carlin, and Josie...if I read about one of them dead tomorrow I would not be surprised...and I do not wish it on them...but Bates girls...enjoy your health, enjoy your youth and enjoy the kids you have now...
  17. its early days yet and I am really taking my time...but once you learn about dysfunctional family systems, emotions and poverty -- you can spot what you've learned in anyone...I can see issues in Carlin, Erin, Katie and Lawson the most....and as far as kids the two I see that "act out" are Allie and Layla....there is the saying " you are who you really are , when no one is looking" It is really hard to hide a true self when everybody looks at you day after day - for a living...
  18. lol...I did all the hair and make up of my 2 sisters while dating ...I joke now their husbands woke up on the wedding day and said " who the hell are you"?...lol , they been homely lookin since the honeymoon....
  19. maybe the trauma and neglect she experienced is so bad she is looking for a mother figure. and the gals she is with know this and are actually helping her and loving her...that is a possibility. I am writing an article on shame and started the research about 2 weeks ago..this goes along with knowing the roles in a dysfunctional family...the scapegoat, savior, lost child, rescuer..etc etc...I am wondering what role Carlin was " assigned"...clues in her life may indicate the lost child..She has a need for attention, friends with her children, and now friends with mother figures fulfilling the role for her of the mother's attention she never quite had???
  20. She as also short of breath when she talks....as far as bouncing back...Carlin, Alyssa and Erin on not as trim as they used to be...looks like Katie and Whitney are pre baby weight...although it could be diet factoring in...Katie and whitney have home cooked meals etc...I dont know what Erin does...but Carlin is junk , junk , junk...and no judgment no matter what size they are....it gets harder to maintain a youthful weight for some as we get older...and by the way...kelly looks really good from pics of ILYD...the dress she has on is really flattering...I would get that style instead of the frumpier style of BSB..
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