Anyone else notice the pattern where the couples that seem to fail are ones that either jump into bed immediately OR if they wait way too long?
I think the manufactured, privacy-invading, contrived framework of this show, contributes to many of their issues. In real life, maybe Iris's husband would just spontaneously push her up against a wall and make her WANT to be with him or at least give her a taste of what it would be like. He's a VERY handsome man and I see no reason why he doesn't have the confidence to take the bull by the horns, so to speak -- he's just been over-analyzing this crap for way TOO long and she has been talking about her virgin-hood for way TOO long. They don't need the stupid dances or more awkward trivia games or useless advice from the experts... they need some wine and NO CAMERAS and to just freakin' make-out like teenagers and see if they like kissing each other. It all starts there -- kissing, lots of kissing. If you hate it, break up. I really think that if her husband initiated this earl;y on -- just kissing, not forcing anything else, she would not be able to keep her hands off of him. I just can't imagine him not being a good kisser. He is just so handsome and also, he strikes me as a genuinely good man -- truly a great catch and so is she, for that matter -- she has just gotten caught up with broken-record syndrome and has a few hang-ups for sure, though she definitely ought to feel proud that she has not given away her body to every tom, dick or harry -- that's an awesome thing and challenging to maintain in the Babylonian-like culture we live in -- but it can't be her sole focus. So, I am rooting for them too. Fingers and toes crossed. 💗