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I have no idea who Leah is....but I am talking about the flak she is getting on the show.

Personally as a white person...I’m just not judging any person of color on how they react to racism. That’s all. Many people seem extra worried about Kathryn and I don’t get it. I get that racism in peoples faces is uncomfortable to watch being called out. Same as over in This is Us forums where many posters say...ugh I don’t want to have to watch this BLM stuff all the time can’t we just forget about it.

I am sure any person of color feels it when they see someone else attacked in a racist manner. I am not going to deal with "whataboutism" - like what about her doing A, B, C and D. I am just saying many people are villanizing the only person of color on this show and it is very telling.

They are on a TV show - I am sure producers are saying to them...talk about how you feel about what is going on here on camera. That is what we are paying you for. As in the same for every other character on the show that comes for people and argues. Is it because it is racism so that is more uncomfortable than being mad about Austin in a threesome? Everyone going after Ashley? Craig being made fun of relentlessly for not passing the bar? Also, why not bring it up on TV and use this as a way to educate people on racist behavior? Kathryn does not deserve to be spared any kind of flack coming at her. I'm not saying cancel her completely, but she is hardly the victim here.

What does the "witches cauldron of racism" mean? I don't understand? Maybe because the initial racism was really hurtful to her and she needed time.

People are over Randall being upset about having no support as a person of color raised in an all white family? It might feel uncomfortable, but that is because it should feel uncomfortable. There is no just getting over it. He was lucky for the great family he has, but no one can discount his feelings of how it was. I know it is a TV show but the writing for me was super on-point. I actually cried at the end when he said he was sad and Beth said...we have to press on. Because basically everything right now feels so unsettled, unsure, terrifying about the virus and the election. I found it comforting actually.

Omg going through those pictures I’m saying “get away from each other!” to the bridesmaids! There was a wedding not far from me in Maine that only had 62 guests. After contact tracing it has been linked to 150 cases and 3 deaths. Crazy...I can’t imagine you wouldn’t feel major guilt that you didn’t just postpone your wedding. Maine has had very low cases and deaths so maybe they assumed it would be fine.

And she is a sous chef suddenly!

I feel that we’ve really jumped the shark when we’re talking to dead grandmothers to make a decision on what dress to say yes to! What a boring episode. I feel like they are really scraping together a show at this point.

I thought she looked so much better in the Kleinfelds dress - I was yelling at the TV noooo don't buy that terrible dress in Boston. I live in New England and have no idea who she is. But morning DJs are kind of a dying breed so not surprised.

I could have sworn there was a Tweet from WWHL saying Malia and Bugsy were going to be on tonight and asked for questions for them to answer. The tweet is gone and different guests. I know from reading Andy’s books they often change guests last minute but kind of weird. Now I feel like I dreamed it?! Okay not crazy I just stumbled upon it again they are on next week...phew. People are harsh with the possible questions but I’m sure Andy won’t be to hard hitting.

It’s almost uncomfortable watching Henry. Cringeworthy!! I hope he is just tired?!

It’s really interesting that while they are filming they obviously think things are going in their favor...and then when it airs it doesn’t go their way at all! I heard on a podcast this weekend that Teddi’s shower is at Buca. Not sure if it’s in Dorit’s room or not!

Ugh she was the worst - so annoying. And the bridal consultant with her over the top singing...that was a lot.

Teddi pretty much ruined the show last year and now returns as one of the most useless HWs of all time. She needs to go.

IMO, I am allowed to disagree with them and not enjoy them on the show. To me it props up people with religous and social views that are damaging to people I love.

I think you are 100% right in this observation. After a google search you can find that they have a Youtube channel with family videos - choreographed with music. Their FB page is full of weirdly staged professional photos. They are trying very hard. Most likely to get a reality show. I found the mom engaging on a Reality TV casting FB page. It may be appealing to some, me not so much. IMO they wanted to be on the show as a stepping stone.

I found their Facebook page and it showed that she worked at their church. On the church website it says...believe marriage is only between man and woman...believe you a born either male or female and that’s that...etc.

I felt like something was “off” with that family in the last episode and could not put my finger on it. I found them to be...not exactly genuine. Not surprised to find they are part of a TX church that is homophobic, transphobic, etc. Does not align with my beliefs and made me understand maybe why I was not connecting with them as a whole.

These woman act like they are running for election to "represent their state"! And there is SO much pressure on them...according to their talking heads. No one is sitting every week saying...geez I hope they pick the best dress to represent our state.

I was JUST thinking...remember when we had to look at this dress a million times over.

I feel like the UK version has much better dresses.

Holy shit - Victoria looked terrible in every dress (IMO) - why did no one tell her? They were not figure flattering at all or well suited for her body type? So strange. I mean the ceremony dress was a little better but both “party” dresses? Yikes. I was yelling at the tv. I usually want the people not to be assholes to the bride but this was a time for someone to say NO.

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I wish I could find an eyeroll emoji for this. It's not the same.