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Mrs. Hanson

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  1. On 12/9/2022 at 10:21 PM, TwirlyGirly said:

    When I saw the TLC ad for season 2 of this show I thought I should see if season 1 is on Discovery+.

    2 minutes into S1/E1 it all came back to me and I remembered I had watched it and recalled everyone's story lines. Then I remembered I had posted about the season here at Primetimer - but none of my posts are in this forum.

    Did I just dream posting about this show?

    Anyway, I have some advice for Aryanna and every young woman who thinks like her:

    Getting knocked while on vacation by a guy you just met doesn't instantly make the three of you (the father, the potential baby, and you) a "family". 

    The man that impregnated you isn't legally or morally required to marry you, come live with you, buy a house with a picket fence for you, and adopt a family dog - however much you think he should.

    When you contacted the Sherlon to let him know you were pregnant and asked him whether he thought you should have an abortion, put the baby up for adoption, or keep the baby and raise it - what did he say?

    If he said abortion or adoption, that's all the information you needed to know he didn't want any involvement with the baby.

    If he said you should continue the pregnancy and keep the baby, that was your cue to ask him how involved you could expect him to be. Was he planning to move in with you? Or just visit for a couple of weeks a few times a year? Would he pay child support at a predetermined amount at regular intervals? 

    The answers to those questions should have factored in to your decision as to how you should deal with this unplanned pregnancy.

    No man can be forced into marrying a woman he's impregnated. No man can be forced into helping to care for and raise a baby he's fathered. And no man can be forced into paying child support - even if they live in a state that garnishes wages. Plenty of men avoid child support by moving to another state and taking jobs that will pay them under the table.

    Any woman facing an unplanned pregnancy who decides to continue the pregnancy and keep and raise the baby must have a plan for doing it all on her own. And if that's impossible, abortion or adoption would be her other options.

    Mature adults don't take on responsibilities that necessitate the cooperation of others to fulfill. 

    If someone other than your baby's father offers to help you financially, and you can't care for yourself and your baby without that help, remember: the ability of someone to help you financially can change overnight. Your mother, Aryanna, said she had to get out of retirement and go back to work to help you financially. You never should have allowed her to do that. It's. your. baby. 

    What if your mother gets sick, gets hurt in an accident, or dies? What will you do then? 

    You'll probably have to work two full-time jobs, and use the salary from one job to pay for daycare so you can work your second job.

    Millions of single moms do just that. You could - and should - do that now. 

    Oh, you don't want to do that? Neither do the millions of other women who are doing it.

    But you made a choice, Aryanna. Caring for and supporting your baby is part of the choice you made - even if you don't like what you'll have to do to fulfill your responsibilities. 

    Don't count on any child support from Sherlon, Aryanna. You'll only get child support from Sherlon if he wants to give it to you, and he'll only send the amount he wants to send.

    The United States does have agreements with a few countries that will enforce child support decrees from the United States.

    Jamaica is not one of those countries. 

    You've made two huge mistakes, Aryanna: having unprotected sex with a man you'd just met while on vacation in a foreign country, and then deciding to continue the pregnancy and keep and raise the baby that was the result, despite being unable to do that without receiving lots of help from others. 

    Can I like this 1000 times?  Every word is on point.  Ari and her single mom bullshit was so tiring.  You live in a house, with a bed, with food, medical and dental insurance, etc, and your mom is your husband/father.  Lean into the trio of the three of you FOREVER.  Sherlon has probably blocked her by this time.   It is really sad that she is what, 25?  26?  AND HE IS IN HIS FORTIES, correct?  Ewwww.......

    She was on her IG and said they agreed to $50 a month or something and she had not seen a penny.  Surprised?  Not me.

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  2. 18 minutes ago, watchingtvaddict said:

    When you move to the US you state you are NOT going to be practicing polygamy… I call BS on Cesars little story. How are two women coming over to the US? He is putting those two women in a very dicey situation by following this plan. 

    True.  Did he say he was going to marry one?  Caesar, on one hand seems harmless.  But then his dimness could get people in trouble.

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  3. I really wished I could have piped in my two cents:  Everyone back of of Caesar.  If everyone consents, why the hell do we care if three people sleep together?  Keep up your lawn, be nice at the neighborhood cookout and we are good.  You are all age of consent?   Good to go!  Natalie and your morality police can stay away.

    2 hours ago, Spectator said:

    I found Tiffany’s comments about how she had never stood up to Ronald up until the tell all and how she had been quiet for seven years to be just plain bizarre. Unless my memory is deceiving me, I remember her as someone who was CONSTANTLY speaking up and speaking out, making demands (demands which Ronald never seemed to meet), relaying ultimatums and airing her grievances. Constantly. So her strong behavior on the tell all just seemed like more of the same.

    I agree - she was playing mind games with him - "Oops I forgot the debit card"  and trying to control him.  They were a vacation fling that should have stayed a vacation fling.  But no.  Like many females she tried to turn felon boy into white picket fence and little Carly is in the middle of it.

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  4. 2 minutes ago, kacesq said:

    Oh noes…will Sumit’s mommy and daddy finally accept their son’s geriatric wife? And Jenny, you are…in Yara’s world…a grown ass woman. Why do you care? But lol at the idea Sumit wants to go to the US.

    You will do great on your first day of work.  And your second, third, etc.....

    Random photo of me in Glacier in 2016.  

    YOU GO GIRL

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  5. 3 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

    Yeah, Liz, the fact that you're whoring yourself and your private life out on a trashy reality show won't factor in at all. The judge will want to know if you and your repellent blob of a boyfriend bicker a lot. I cannot even.

    Liz needs to not drink, move away from San Diego, get off tv, move near her daughter, not speak to Ed and get therapy.  She is broken but doesn't know it.

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  6. 4 hours ago, Kid said:

    I have come to the point where I fast forward through everything (either because I don't care about them or I can't stand the sight of them in the case of Wrinkles) but Sumit and his fool and Usman and his fool.  Basically, Sumit spent the episode looking like a deer caught in the headlights.  Jamal needs to get his mother and put her ass on a plane and don't let her out of the country again.

    I am sorry, but I like Sumit's father.  No histrionics and, whether you agree with his view or not, he is crystal clear that he is never going to except her and about what he wants to see happen.  And I am sorry, but given that culture and the world within which they live, I understand his position.

    Sumit has to make a choice and, in my opinion, he has not made it yet because he really doesn't want the life his culture expects if him and Jenny gives him the excuse to avoid it.  I don't think his avoidance of a decision has anything at all to do with his feelings for her. She is a means to an end.

    I like Sumit's dad, too.  Just the facts.  I really find the whole Sumit Jenny thing odd, I always have.  

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  7. 38 minutes ago, Kid said:

    That says something right there, now doesn't it?

    Someone else that it this is the best as she seems unstable.  Remember when he kicked her out at 11 at night?  I believe they live in new Mexico.  Faaaaar away.  Now Dad might get deployed?  She wants to retain custody?  GET OFF REALITY TV.  

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  8. Watched it, ff'd through Angela.  Jesus that woman is ROUGH.  I am adding a picture from 10-29-2022 in the Alamo Dome seeing Elton John.  No fillers, no smoothing stuff, just good genes and no smoking. Turning 58 in January, had WLS 1-10-2006. I have a BFF who has a thing for Coors light.

    Jamal is such a catch! I do not know what to make of this whole adopt my brothers kid thing.  Without telling brother.

    Jenny and Sumit:  Are you trying to kill your mother?

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  9. 23 hours ago, Welshman in Ca said:

    WTF ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

    I was joking - Angela is so abusive, nothing surprises me at this point.  Probably like Sissy - got sick of her crap and left.  Never to be heard from again!

    1 hour ago, magemaud said:

    And he wanted to maintain his coolness in front of his friend, T, and prove he wasn't "whipped." 

    What a lovely dynamic between spouses.

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  10. 18 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

    What ever happened to Angela's friend who traveled with her to Nigeria with her?

    Angela stabbed her.

    Kyle and Noon should have never allowed filming.  I remember that.  The mom did not seem altered to me, but her brain was a wet brain.  Kinda like Rev Jim from Taxi.

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  11. I watched the Tell All:  I feel Natalie had some trauma when she was 12-15, maybe dad left and she has abandonment issues with men?  It certainly looks that way to me.

    Josh, sorry not sorry he is right:  She is MARRIED and talking to her ex and I just saw footage of her wanting to move back.  What is he supposed to think?

    Why all the curiosity why he didn't bring her to his house?  LA is kinda large and spread out.

    If I was on that show (don't worry, my hubby might not approve of my dating) I would become UNCORKED if anyone looked at me and said "You sound SHADY" or that seems SHADY.   I HATE THAT WORD.

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  12. 1 hour ago, LGGirl said:

     Think Yara’s plan was to stay the 90 days just to be on the show to build her brand.  She never intended to get married but getting pregnant changed all that.  Jovi should be concerned and get Myla back in the US.  

    Then she should have not have gotten pregnant twice.

    I can't believe Jamal agreed to go to Africa!  I would have been Mom just stop with this crazy talk!

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  13. 13 hours ago, Elizzikra said:

    I don't think that Natalie was ever in love with Mike. I think Natalie was worried that her time to find an American husband was growing short and she thought Mike was the best she could do. Then she got here and realized how much she really didn't like him and how much she really hated rural life and she decided maybe she could find someone better. So she left. Now she is back having realized that 1) it's hard to find a good partner and 2) Mike is actually a nice guy who helped her mother get out of Ukraine when she needed to. So she is back. But still not in love.

    Interesting.  Who really knows with these fools - look how much Natalie has changed from Ms Religious and now she is thrice divorced?

    Maybe she was in love with the idea of being in love?

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  14. 17 hours ago, Hotel Snarker said:

    Trash was giving me anxiety and I was just watching on TV. I felt bad for Nutalie since she came across as genuinely apologetic and his mom just roasts her. Adult Mike makes it Trash’s business when he just stands there with his head down like he’s 6 while his mother is minding his business. He needs to speak up and handle his marriage like an adult.

    I have to admit, as ridiculous as this show is, the breakup between Coltee and Debbie was probably the only one I didn't expect.

    Can we please talk about Caesar’s state of delusion? Does he even believe his own storyline? 🙄

    Caesar does, yes.

    Colt and Debbie need to only speak when there is a professional mediator present. 

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  15. 3 hours ago, bravofan27 said:

    Trish was so rude to Natalie-- punishing her like she was child. Natalie threw the ring at Michael back in the Ukraine and Michael never got over it and brought it up all the time about how much she hurt him. The mom egged on this hurt. Now they are claiming that Natalie hurt Michael by leaving him, although he did nothing to show her he wanted her to stay. I was surprised that Natalie took all the blame, because I remember Mike not committing or giving her an answer to getting married until the very end, and Trish had sent someone to oppose the wedding. 

    Are producers putting these guys back together? Because when they were together they both seemed to hate each other.

    I am no fan of Natalie, I need to be clear, but man that was hard to watch.  Both of them berating her and Trish talking to her like she is a tween who stayed out too late.  I don't blame Natalie for crying.  I would have stood up and asked Mike, IN FRONT OF TRISH "Can you not speak?  Did you send your mom in here to do your dirty work?  CAN YOU NOT TALK?"   Looking at your son and saying SHE IS A BITCH!  I mean jeez Trish, here is some advice:  Get a haircut, wear turtlenecks, get your beak out of your son's life.  Get a life of your own.  If Trish is living there, RUN RUN RUN Natalie.  And Mike is guilty, too, of standing there with that stale look on his face while his mom berates Natalie.  

    On 11/20/2022 at 12:24 PM, magemaud said:

    When Natalie left the room and Trish said, "What a ***in bitch" I said, "Yes, yes YOU are!" Even if Mike and Natalie were still in love and decided to get back together (which I doubt) Trish will NEVER forgive Natalie. 

    I wonder if they're spending Thanksgiving together...

    Well there was that yummy gravy in a glass pyrex measuring cup.  All the food looked gross except for Natalie's soup.

    On 11/16/2022 at 4:59 PM, Eme said:

    .once she told him he was not her Soulmate, it was O.V.E.R.

    He looked so hurt, I still remember it.  

    On 11/18/2022 at 11:21 AM, Breedom said:

    Go and get the divorce. It'll help clarify things.

    I agree.  Don't drag it out any more.

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  16. 15 hours ago, Pepper Mostly said:

    Man, I've been drinking lots of delicious cocktails and had a yummy grilled cheese (with bacon and hot honey) at my favorite bar and now I want a cookie wicked bad. I'm off in search of something sweet. 

    Good night, dear snarkers! See you tomorrow night for some more slow torture with these idiots. I love you all, MWAH! 

    That sandwich sounds very yummy!

    15 hours ago, Doublemint said:

    We're falling apart.   Angry Moldolvan hasn't been here for a few weeks, lots of others have bailed too.   I hope the show gets better, miss the old days/nights.   Love you guys.  Have a great week!

    I am still here for the snark, I do not have live tv anymore.  And I watch it when it drops and do not want to spoil.  It was a so so episode, plus if you follow 90 day on Reddit you can save a lot of time!!!  I ff through Ed and Liz, although it is funny not funny to see her cry, explaining how she is so happy yet is crying and sad.   I ff through Angela and Michael, if it is real that is no way to live.  FOR YEARS.

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  17. On 11/17/2022 at 8:44 AM, Cementhead said:

    And I'm on name watch.  Why do I care??

    Ooh, update! I just clicked on the tweet or gram or whatever that was and it says in the deets.  Girl named Aleesi.

    It is not Ashleighlynne Neveah so I am good.

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