NoJustNo

*If* he takes care of them-emotionally and financially who cares. WHY would she wear that anywhere except in a bedroom!

It's just easier to refer to him that way. If you did go off on someone for referring to him incorrectly you'd look like a total trainwreck. It'd be like "NO MORE WIRE HANGERS!" Exactly.

I mean, WHAT is up with that? It's like he's a little boy. That would kill me.

Jepte is actually being nice for once! OMGah! Jaclyn you are so in love ....with your deceased ex. Poor Ryan. EVERYTHING they do is tainted. It seems really unfair to him. He's kinda so dense he won't figure it out but still.

Um, that's kinda the way it works.

Because she wants a child from a foreigner. Exactly. I agree but WHY?????? Because David had a stroke? I don't get it. He probably promised her that the roommates would be out by now-if he even told her he had roommates.

I don't see anyone even 1/10th this mad-not sure what you're talking about? He's a good guy-just a bit 'holier than thou'- although less now than in the earlier seasons.

I think she's assuming they'll have kids and even if they don't end up together the kids will want to hear about it? More bad editing, IMO. Dear Nate and Shelia-the experts aren't telling you the #1 rule of marriage because they want you to keep being dramatic for ratings. The #1 rule-take time outs! Walk away go to a different room until everything calms down and before you say stuff you regret. My H and I went to marriage counseling-and that tip alone saved us so much drama. Half the time we laugh about how mad we got over whatever it was-after a time out. When we were first married-which is when the worst arguments happen IMO-I said "TIME THE F*** OUT" and slammed the door-but I think that still counted. It's too bad the 'experts' didn't tell them about taking time outs-because Shelia, and I suspect, Nate were verbally abusive. Calling a man a "b1tch" or callling a woman a "b1tch" is verbal abuse-or at least very close. As an attorney-I wonder if a contract to stay married would be illegal. You can't base legal fees on whether the divorce is successful or the amount of the settlement and spouses can't be forced to testify against each other. In short, the law made not enforce a contract that goes against/takes bets on marriage. Also, PR could be a mess-what if a couple stayed together to get $ and one was abusive (or one of them alleged abuse). Im guessing they got a puppy. I really don't think she even wants a baby this fast. I think a lot of Ashley being so baby crazy was producer driven. Lots of places. I think *some* 40-50 something men might be worried about growing old and may try to find a younger woman-but that's only going to work for men with $$$. In general at least. Most men want women their age at 60-Im willing to bet. I think we should give them credit. I read somewhere that the population who are getting STD's the most are people in retirement homes. And they're aren't younger women in retirement homes. Of course, my mom married my step dad at 55 and 10 years later they are still 'soul mates.' And my grandmother got a boob job in her late 60's because she could.

Well deserved-shooting in these conditions is next to impossible-I can't imagine.

I know I'm alone in this-but I wish it would get renewed. I never watch the reunions-so not that. I just want it to be renewed!

I think it may be a chicken/egg kind of thing. hahaha. He is a neat enough guy but why does he have to put down people who live in "civil-lie-zation" (as he says) and he doesn;t seem to get that he is privileged to be able to do that in the first place.

He is so full of himself. Shut up! You aren't any better than anyone else. Good grief.

You're so right re: no one but little old ladies wear fur here. It's so weird to me because, to me at least, they're not really old money or new money. Other than Happy. Maybe money two generations ago. Does anyone know how many people actually live in in Savannah full time other than those who work in the hospitality industry? When Ashley stripped down and swam and what seemed to be, to me at least, a swamp? I think Ashley wanted Savannah to seem more paradise than it is.

The eyebrows! The lack of facial hair! The smooth 50ish skin indicative of "having work done." It's not even feminine or masculine-it is not natural! I personally am not attracted to Ken Peter Pan types. It's almost like his mother has kept him in pre-puberty hence his lack of interest in sex-or for any prolong period-to me maybe. This is a theory in flux .lol.

Off topic but I just have to say-that my mom is so like that with her grandkids, including my children, so I completely stopped talking to her a few months ago. Let me promise you that that is not a one-time occurrence-his father has acted that way to Thomas his whole life. It didn't even occur to Thomas' dad how insane it would be to miss a grandchild's birthday for so trivial a matter that could easily be rescheduled. Speaking of being in someone's DNA. ....My mom didn't show to a birthday party (my youngest's' fifth) because she had to get a broken side mirror on her car fixed. (that'd been broken for months.) I could go on and on. They're just missing the parenting/nurturing gene. Aka the thinking of other people gene. I've felt guilty lately and seeing that from the outside-all feelings of guilt disappeared.