I disagree about Brandon and Teresa...I think their intentions were good and extremely generous towards Tyler and Cate. They showed compassion and gratitude for the gift that they were given. They may have gone into the open adoption without thinking through what this might mean for Carly if it turned sour but I think they were OK with the MTV storyline as long as Carly wasn't shown on camera and visits weren't recorded. I think they put Carly's well being ahead of Tyler and Cate's selfish and immature demands. As they should have. I'm sure, in retrospect, they wish they had never entered into an open adoption or at least just kept it at pictures and 2-3 times a year updates on Carly. Tyler and Cate are the ones that have made this a difficult situation as they seem to feel that Carly is their child and that Brandon and Teresa are just babysitting her until she's 18.
I'm sorry but Tyler and Cate have crossed a lot of boundaries and should not discuss their "emotional feelings" about Carly, Brandon and Teresa on camera if those "feelings" are negative and resentful. That's what therapists are for...you go to them to express your emotional feelings...not an MTV camera or Twitter. They should be grateful that Brandon and Teresa communicate with them and have allowed some visits to occur! Especially after they have been bitter and nasty about them on camera and on social media. Tyler and Cate continue to act like spoiled, entitled teenagers who feel they should get what they want when they want it. Even when they got a future visit set up they complained about it being at a zoo...Tyler wanting to just lay around on a blanket in a park...gee, that sounds like fun for the girls. And Cate, if you don't want to take baby Vaeda then leave her with a babysitter. Honestly, I would have cut these two losers off years ago and closed the adoption for good.