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O. M. G. Haley's gonna "let" Jake win this time. She's so fucking pissy.

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HAHAHAHA - PCal just said that you're unmatchable if you still want to party all the time - uh, VA, Cal???? Or am I being 'asinine' again? 😂

Haley can make fun of Jake & be an ugly winner but can't take playfully being called a diva at four. Everything she does & says about herself is a brag. She's tiring.

Did everyone hear that? Cal said anyone who thinks they pair for drama is "asinine". Nice job, insulting your audience "pastor" Cal.

Yeah Haley he's showing up, whereas you're just there for the cameras. I don't blame him for not bothering to get to know you when you're not there if the cameras aren't rolling. Seriously you don't want him & have made it clear & he knows, so STFU. More fake ass BS from her.

She & JamieO actually look good. But Clara's baby-doll belongs in the bedroom.

Why is Clara wearing a nightie on Unfiltered?

Problem with that thinking is hanging with someone else's kids for a while is totally different from having your own.

While it's entirely possible, obviously, that someone can pass away peacefully with loving family around him, that's not something anyone can expect - hope for, yes, but not expect. I'm sure Vinny realizes this, & it's nice that he's so family oriented. Hope it all works out for them.

Yup; I agree. That's why I said she hasn't confirmed or denied this, but then again she could be in on it all as well. I usually don't comment on this particular group because I think the whole thing is BS. Regardless it's all pretty sick stuff & I truly hope this isn't the direction this show will be going.

Not necessarily. There are situations where the new person coming in is willing to live with the pet but not take responsibility, or where people are living together & one wants the pet so, again, takes responsibility. It's not ideal but it happens. The situation has to be comfortable for everyone though, so if the pet is not well behaved then either the owner needs to do the training (or both together or if the other person is interested). They'll just turn it back on the other as being the problem. Rarely do they see themselves in the mirroring. Chris said Mercedes was involved in a bad accident years ago & hadn't driven much, if at all, since. So it seems like she didn't have a car but was going to try to start driving again because of the baby. I don't know if she's publicly acknowledged/confirmed this information or not.

Jamie & Beth's segments are some of my least favorite & sometimes I just FF. I did see the licking thing & that dog looked focused on getting every bit of whatever he smeared on himself to make that happen. I know it's all staged & there's no way Anthony prepped that room w/o her having a clue (& Ashley is a bad actress LOL), but he did a good job. I had mentioned, & still think, their daughter is mostly Anthony, but after seeing the teeth brushing I have to say she's definitely got Ashley's mouth. I still tend to like their segments the most. Keith & Kristine's home looks nice & I love their cat. I don't blame her on planning the basement next - get it all done while the momentum is still there or it might never happen!

I've dissed wedding gowns as sometimes they just don't fit the person or aren't fitted correctly, but, in the women's defense reg. their wedding looks - they have limited time & choices are few. It's very difficult to get a wedding gown that suits the bride in both taste/style & fit in two weeks. I'm also getting the feeling the show either sets them up with hair/makeup or they again have limited time to find someone available who 'gets' them & can do a look they're comfortable with. Both Paige & Clara said they were not comfortable, that they wanted to look their best, but didn't feel like themselves. Paige mentioned limited time/choices with dresses & Clara had a pre-wedding meltdown, explaining on Unfiltered how uncomfortable she was with her look. I can't blame her either as she's just about to get married to someone who does not know her - this is the first impression for their stranger husbands & some of these bride's aren't even comfortable with themselves. They just have to hope, I guess, that the dude won't be a dick & write them off from the first look.

Not surprised either, & having seen some of Shawniece’s posts she doesn’t seem to be doing well. I know she’s dramatic but I feel bad for her & Laura. She was always more invested while Jephte only stayed for the baby.

Maybe others can add details but I recall them messing with people's work titles in past seasons as well.

That's why I said I don't believe that's Ryan, etc. in my post. Although anyone could slip under these 'expert's' radar.

My aunt had high BP which, after having 2 kids, became an even bigger lifetime problem, eventually causing a massive stroke; she lingered until her death months later; she was in her 50s. So thousands may survive & thrive, but not everyone will. Brianna's concerns are quite valid. Reg. her figure a lot of men prefer their wives pre-kids bodies, & guys who can't face possible changes should either not get married, marry someone willing to adopt, or accept whatever will happen. The latter means loving her unconditionally (which they should anyway), & many just can't/won't/don't. Vinny has already mentioned liking how tiny she is, & that could be affecting her. But I must also mention men/our culture makes it difficult for women to not be concerned about physical changes from childbearing. I think it's more being a FT SAHM that tends to be looked down upon. Divorces occurring after the kids grow up are often because a lot of folks hang on just for them, & are finally feeling free enough to leave once the kids are out on their own. You can't love addiction out of someone, or problems/bad habits for that matter. They are who they are. If she has underlying issues from her childhood causing her drinking that's on her alone to work on. He'll just be along for a bad ride until she does, or a divorce when it eventually gets unbearable for him. (And I'm not condoning his way about him either, at all). I must have just got lucky then (sad face) There are a lot of reasons some people may not want sex. Could be from past/present abuse, physical/hormonal issues, stress/depression/anxiety & other emotional issues, medications, etc., etc. I don't think this is Ryan though, especially if it's a one-way street. Maybe this is all a story line, & Clara is breaking out those high school acting chops for cable TV. She has mentioned loving an audience. Yeah again I think this is story line BS. Maybe Jake is feeling it more because as he said all his friends were marrying, having kids etc. Haley too, done with being a bridesmaid & going solo to functions. Maybe both of them need to examine if they really want to be married or just want a plus one. I think Jake is more likely to be ready though, & not just because of his age. He'll do fine post-show. "I've been married before I know how it's supposed to work" Erik will have two divorces under his belt when this fails. He seems kind of desperate sometimes, then other times he's practically pushing her out with the "You can always leave" crap. If he wants to move on after this he should at least display himself better.

Clara & Jake would be a nice combo, but Jake's probably too white boy for her exotic tastes. Haley & Erik might work well too as he probably couldn't pull off the father crap with her. Travel, prissiness, & well-behaved dogs would be in common. But Haley would need to give him a chance, which is not really her thing. In total agreement with #5. Chris shouldn't marry anyone.

He's had it with her fake for a while now, & why he hasn't played ball with her questions. Pulling personal info out of him reg. the last 10 yrs was shitty on her part, because she doesn't really care & did it for the show. He was obviously put off & hesitant about answering, for good reason. Why bother when she's not even around when the cameras leave? Geez I'd hate playing this stupid game too. That said he could just say fuck it, I'm out. At this point I don't think anyone would blame him, & most would probably be relieved not to see their awkward segments anymore. But next week it's all fun & games for these two...🙄

VA is young but has some baggage. Her 20s are a good time to deal with it. She has time, a supportive sister, & a large friend group. Makes no sense why she did this show at this point in her life. She got Rocky because she was depressed & he's been a comfort. Yes, she's neglected training, but he's not a bad dog. He seems cute, sweet, playful & friendly. Then this condescending wanna be father-figure dude comes along, with zero training skills (as displayed), & outwardly annoyed by the creature who has been a comfort to her. She's taking it personally, as would I with how it was presented. Training could be a fun thing, & bonding for all. But it won't be if Erik continues with the wrong attitude. Erik also says his dog has had training, but he had no idea what he was doing with Rocky & I felt, was kind of hateful towards him. That won't ever work. It's rubbing off on VA, because then she tried to get Rocky to "Lie down!", which again isn't going to work. I feel like the dog will end up confused, & hopefully not become aggressive due to the strain in the home & attitudes towards him; they could fuck up a good dog. Are they both too proud to spend a few minutes a day on YT looking up positive trainers - I can think of 3 off the top of my head. It would benefit them all. And where is Erik's dog in all this, because Erik "trained" him so he should be there, acting perfect at all times. Or maybe he's concerned Rocky will be a bad influence (that actually can happen). VA mentioned in a past episode being upset because she hardly sees her cats anymore. I've read elsewhere Erik is allergic to cats. Again, I was completely disgusted by this show & their 'experts'. W. T. F.! So he's allergic now she's required to give up her beloved cats? Not to devalue humans, but, these lovely creatures have been an ongoing comfort to her. He's come in out of nowhere & seemingly just caused her more stress. But I'm not going to say she's right in just wanting to party either. And he has a point in that being a pilot when he's home he just wants to be with his wife. But his delivery is not just bad, it's quite damaging.

So Haley still wants to "try". But does "try" mean being around after the cameras leave, is the question. She should've been honest for once & just admitted she's done.

Something as important as wanting kids or not should have been dealt with during the screening process for the show. Either the 'experts' dropped the ball, again, or it's all BS for drama.

It's prolonging the pain for a lot of us too.

Both Ryan & Clara neglected to mention Ryan is, um, satisfied, with their sex life. It's fine for him because it seems to be, all for him.