Akini, Fidel and Family Akini are awful and Benjamin needs to run as fast as he can.
Benjamin might have been a bit of a dolt not bringing anything, he probably was jet lagged and so befuddled by having to jump through hoops to please her and the family but they were the rudest hosts I have ever seen on this show. And that includes all of the Families Chantel, immediate and extended.
And fathers/brothers who are the gatekeepers of their sister's virtue vaginas are disgusting throwbacks who need to be brought into the 21st century.
I understand a family looking out for a member but they want to make sure she goes to someone who will pay them (and a virgin will get them more money). I doubt they care as much about her feelings or well being as opposed to what they will get out of it.
Ben might be a pasty, hairy and awkward but he seems sweet and he can definitely do better.