Gosh, he was such milktoast. Those poor children. I cannot understand that at all. Shanann certainly did not deserve to die, but as I was watching it, all I could think of was "wow, I really do not like this woman" and then felt incredibly guilty and horrible that I thought this about a murdered woman. I was relieved when I was reading this forum and discovered I was not the only one.
PS I do think that girlfriend was more involved that what was stated....