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    S07.E13: I'm Beautiful, I'm Smart, I'm Strong

    I have PCOS and I really don't think Maci does. I think it's a condition she lightly googled when she needed to lie about her pregnancy and now she has to stick with the storyline because it's out there in the world.
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    Kailyn: Kail Smash!

    I use SoCal, Nor Cal also. I don’t know Cali just sounds cutesy to me, maybe? I’ve personally never heard it used by locals @Mkay isn’t LL Cool J from NYC? It’s fine in music, I guess. Language is relaxed in music for the sake of rhythm etc. Anyway I’m not really a hugely nit picky person, and honestly didn’t really mean to attack anyone with the post. I was just talking about my personal preferences and what I’ve observed.
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    Kailyn: Kail Smash!

    Does anyone actually from California use Cali? It drives me nuts when my non-Californian friends use it and I usually gently tell them not to. I don’t think it’s shame to use SoCal @GreatKazu? I think it’s lingo that we locals use? When I’m too lazy to type out California, I just write Ca, I don’t know Cali just never sounds right. Haha. Yes! I’ve been dating or thinking about dating after a divorce and for the most part, I opt out of the market.
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    Briana DeJesus: Farm league promoted to the Majors

    Javi is a band-wagon jumper! I’m a lifelong Bay Area resident and I’ve always supported the Warriors, even through the hopeless years. What is he jumping on our fandom for? Where even is he from? Somewhere in Pennsylvania? Just because he has mtv connects and reality show fast money he can get good seats at games and he thinks he’s all that. Eta: I wouldn’t care normally but Javi annoys me so I’ll take anything I can to roll my eyes at him.
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    Briana DeJesus: Farm league promoted to the Majors

    And, Javi has a child and has been through a divorce. You'd think he was over that phase of his life and would have developed better habits about keeping his private life private. .
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    Kailyn: Kail Smash!

    Lol. She’s about 4 years YOUNGER than me and I look like a teenager compared to her. She’s had kids and I haven’t though, so maybe I should give her some leeway.
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    Teen Mom 2 : Things That We Need To Discuss NOW!

    It makes sense because the twenty somethings depend on the show for their livelihood. Randy dgaf because he’s fine with or without Teen Mom, he probably enjoys the notoriety and the extra $s but he doesn’t need the show.
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    Teen Mom 2: Small Talk

    @GreatKazu thanks so much! I so appreciate how supportive you've been of me through this time. It seems like a small thing but it helped so much.
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    Teen Mom 2: Small Talk

    You guys! I finally found a gig!! I'll be a contractor but it's better paid than most attorney jobs I've had and, while full time, has good enough hours for me to study for the Bar while working. It's also the sort of company that, in the long term, will look good on my resume and will be beneficial to have connections in. It's such a relief, I'll be able to squirrel enough away to be moved out of folk's house when I need to. This has been such an emotionally and physically exhausting year for me but maybe, hopefully, will have a good end. Anyway, hope I am not tempting fate by posting this here but wanted to celebrate with y'all since I've posted so much sad stuff here recently.
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    S08.E15: Love You, Mean It

    People tend to have different tolerance levels for what they view as 'clean' though. Clean is differrnt from neat or organized. To me, clean means having non sticky counters and floors, basically clean to me means hygienic. I don't think of mess as dirty nor do I mind things that I use regularly being scattered on a counter. Right now I have makeup scattered all over my bathroom sink but I don't really think of that as dirty just messy. You can be clean without having everything perfectly stored away in a designated spot, just my opinion. I have ADHD and my brain has never been one that understands organization, I've stopped giving myself grief about that and just focus on living as minimally as I can and cut myself a break as long as washing is done. If my house isn't smelly or sticky or gross, I think I've done my job. Her house maybe perfectly hygienic, just messy. Honestly, I don't really think I've ever noticed that Chelsea's house is dirty or messy... I just think it's fine for everyone to have different tolerance levels for what they can bear in their own home. Honestly, I think my clutter makes my home look lived in.
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    Leah Messer Simms Messer Calvert Messer...She's 23

    I think part of the issue is that while Gracie is neglected, they also force Ali into some of the more physical activities that probably Gracie excels at but Ali struggles with. So then, they fuss over Ali and poor Gracie is like 'what the hell? I ran a home run/ caught a fish, and am getting no praise.' Both girls should be in activities they excel at and enjoy. They don't have to do everything together and would probably get along better if they understood that Ali has some issues so she just has different strengths than Gracie-- then Gracie wouldn't have to feel guilt about the situation, and Ali wouldn't have to feel inferior either. ETA: i don't understand why they don't put Ali into chess or the school spelling bee. That way she can be challenged and feel a sense of accomplishment without being physically drained.
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    S08.E15: Love You, Mean It

    Watching them a pose and preen for their pictures while Jace and Kaiser ran around sunburned and hungry was absolutely disgusting. I don't agree however that Jenelle is remotely comparable to the other girls. Her level of delusion and vanity is pathological and absolutely sinister. Jenelle is going to be taking a selfie while David drops one of those kids out of a window, it's seriously terrifying to think about how detached she is from her children and her environment. Kail, Leah, Chelsea, and Briana are also very flawed but, for the most part, they are loving mothers. Their level of self obsession isn't comparable to Jenelle's. I've worked in child protection court (Illinois) and I feel like what we are seeing play out with Kaiser & Ensley is not so much an 'American' society thing but a cycle of abuse that recurs over multiple generations in families. I feel like David was probably raised similarly. I'm not sure about Barbara, who seems to be attentive and competent, but she's talked about how Jenelle's dad was abusive so there were probably similar things happening with at least one parent when Jenelle was a baby/ toddler. It's really sad to see those kids so neglected. My brother has a 3 month old and we are all picking that baby up and talking to him and carrying him around and cuddling him. he's never in a room by himself or lying alone in a cot. It's baffling to me to see how nobody interacts with Kaiser and Ensley.
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    Kailyn: Kail Smash!

    If this is about a paternity test, good for him. I don't have children but no brother of mine is going to bond with a baby until he makes sure that he's actually the dad (exceptions are for marriage and very well established relationships). I do wonder why they didn't get one sooner unless Karl was stalling. If my brother's occasional hook up buddy became pregnant, under Karl like circumstances, on top of being MARRIED to some other dude, I'd also advise him to establish paternity as soon as humanly possible. But also, none of my brothers even at ages to 16-25 would have been banging a married/ separated woman with kids at all.
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    S08.E15: Love You, Mean It

    Wow, those poor kids. I thought twins were deliberately placed into separate classrooms when they start school? That's what happened to my ex and his twin when they started kindergarten. My cousin also wanted his twin boys to be placed in the same class and the school said no. They were public school systems in different states (also, many years apart lol) so I always thought that was standard policy across all education systems.
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    Kailyn: Kail Smash!

    When I was in my late teens/ early twenties I probably had fun casual chats with the few parents in my classes but I certainly wasn't hanging around their houses or hanging with their kids. I went to class, work, the library, the beach, parties, and concerts/ plays. I don't really think I'd have been open to dating a parent just because I don't think someone with parental responsibilities would have fit into my lifestyle. Also, my friends and I would have given severe side eye to absentee dads trying to live it up. Don't understand how and where Karl finds all these hanger ons. Even now, at 30, most of parent friends barely have time to go on a walk with me, I DO visit them in their homes but it's certainly never a prolonged party. Their lifestyles are so weird to me.
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