I have started making fried green tomatoes last year and I love the recipe I use, I did a bit of research and it is just 3 ingredients, Soak them in buttermilk, then dredge in corn meal (the fine kind) and shallow fry in canola oil. I do not season them because I like them with hot sauce. But any sauce will do. I am not a southerner as well, but let me tell you these are addictive.