My OB told me of a woman who had one ovary and tubes tied (maybe when not done as well) and got pregnant many years later. Sometimes things just happen.
I'm pro choice but wouldn't mind if late term abortions were banned. Pro Life groups will have women who were raped talk about how they kept the baby, husband welcomed it, some gave it up etc and you are in awe of the strength but many are also afraid if religious so it's never usually totally not conflicted. I also remember reading about a woman describe how awful it was to be raped and have everyone for most of her pregnancy ask her about it, strangers comment, other expectant moms will strike up conversations, you are exposed in a way that others carrying those scars are in a different way.. Later, the scars from birth, maybe a C - section, the stretchmarks and other physical signs were also an assault to her, emotionally devastating. It doubled her pain and I pray for anyone who is vulnerable to abuse to get the help they need and not be judged. I can't judge anyone, and listening to both sides, you can emphasize with women and their choices but never should not feel their pain. To gloss it over makes your argument weaker but we aren't black and white, we are a lot of grey.
I like Call the Midwife for the grey.
