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AllyCat7

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  1. I was sad for him in that moment 😕
  2. Right? I mean if you have been in at least one relationship before, you had your heart broken. I don't know why it's always painted as this big dramatic pity fest for the contestants and leads. I never got that. Thanks for verbalizing it.
  3. Yeah, the sibling drama was notably missing this season...except for Serena's a bit...but she was just helping her work through her emotions. Very odd, though--the lack of sibling drama.
  4. A lot of contestants do, though. They will say something like, "If your daughter is the one I choose, do you approve of me?" It's pretty standard. I don't believe Rachael was out of line for expecting that. It's just that Matt broke the mold a bit with that, and I think he was wise to. Sorry, had to give you more than a laugh emoji reaction. Lmaoooooo 😭😭😭😂😭
  5. Huh? Rachel keeps saying how much she is falling for him and is scared to lose him. I think she is not that emotive...but the emotions seem there. They are more subtle. I think Matt kinda likes that style, IMO.
  6. I thought it was cute...especially the Q&A 😂 I loved him. How sweet was he? 😭😭
  7. I just wanted to say that Michelle's dad is a freaking GEM. Both her parents were so sweet. I melted. That is all 😄
  8. At least she owned it. I give her credit for that.
  9. I do NOT like this Jessenia character. Sorry. MJ may not be my favorite, but a lot of the original girls were upset when the new girls arrived and made comments about it. Not just MJ. Jessenia is just trying to get people thrown out of the house at this point. It's getting petty.
  10. Getting a bit tired of the tattletales 😕
  11. I think she was trying to be cute lol
  12. Kit seems a bit too young (personality-wise) for marriage. Idk
  13. Katie is simply too much at this point. What did she have to do with he convo with MJ and Jessenia? Maybe her telling him the house was toxic last week was appropriate, but now she is overstepping. Not a fan. Sorry!
  14. I wrote in my previous post that their bad behavior is uncalled for. I was merely speaking about their FEELINGS and trying to validate them (which I felt was lacking a bit on these threads). Of course they could be channelled better. But even though they are misbehaving, we should empathize with them a bit because of the situations they are put and thrown into--it's all so unnatural and designed to make them upset/frustrated. At the same time, we can call out their bad behavior, for sure. Also, I am still not 100% sold on Katie. Her inappropriateness and rudeness with the vibrator makes it hard for me to take her seriously. Also, when your friends or family are pissed, it's standard to usually try to empathize with them first before lecturing them or playing devil's advocate. But Katie goes straight to lecturing without empathizing or commiserating. It's not a way to bond with people or show empathy with them. I know people like that and they tend to make awful friends--always taking the side of people or situations you are upset at without ever hearing you out. In her quest to be balanced, she is actually being more unbalanced towards her "friends." Just saying.
  15. You can't blame them entirely. The producers introducing 5 new people was probably partially designed to piss the girls off...and maybe to give Matt more options, too. But this has never been done on a normal season before. We should try to empathize with them, too. This is not an easy environment to be in--at all. I do think they took it a bit far. And the gossiping & rumors are uncalled for. But I do understand why they would be upset by the producer manipulations (adding new people without warning), not being able to get time with Matt (the show is notoriously bad at letting girls get equal time during the first few weeks), and allowing girls to cut in on their convos with Matt (including what Sarah did last week). It's just a recipe for hurt feelings, frustration, and anger. I think if there wasn't the possibility of being chosen as the next Bachelorette, BIP, or Instagram fame, more of the girls would just walk off. I wish they would. But you could tell many of them really want to at various points. I also think Katie is playing devil's advocate. When a lot of the girls are rightfully upset about something, she uses that opportunity to take the opposite position to strike a balance. But she has gotten upset herself. When Sarah interrupted her last week she got rightfully peeved. It's only when a lot of the other girls also got pissed with her that she backed down and chose to play the other side as devil's advocate. I wouldn't be surprised if the girl is a Libra. Just saying lol. My point is, ALL of these girls have a right to be upset with some of what goes down on this show, because a lot of if is manipulative and even sometimes abusive. Should they bully someone for no reason? No. But they have the right to express frustration, sadness, and anger when they feel it. I often feel it right along with them at home...and my EQ is decent. Most of the time they are upset for valid reasons.
  16. We'll have to disagree. I think what they did last week was defend themselves. Their behavior this week was more bullying, though. Bullying is done for no reason. But standing up to someone who harmed you is not bullying. IMO
  17. I thought he had a job in real estate? I think I saw pics on his IG from his office (several months ago). Him being unemployed is news to me.
  18. Wow, didn't know that, but checked their IGs and it's confirmed. Can't say I'm surprised, after the rumors of him kissing another woman a couple months ago. Also, they both treated the other men in the house disrespectfully. I don't usually expect two people who behave like that to last long together.
  19. Why is defending yourself considered mean? I don't get it.
  20. Well it helps when the other girls had her back and joined in defending her about what happened. It gave her room to be nicer. How did Sarah NOT deserve any of that? Actions have consequences. You can't treat people like garbage and expect them to just take it lying down. So the girls are "beyotches" for defending themselves? What planet am I on?
  21. Sarah deserved it, though. She disrespected every girl on the show. She put her feelings above all others.
  22. And it was rightfully deserved. That was one of the most satisfying scenes of the Bach franchise that I've ever watched. I'm tired of people not standing up for themselves on this show so as to "not cause drama." I respect all the women who did and they all had valid reasons to do so. None of them went overboard, if you ask me. I am very disappointed in Sarah for labelling them "cruel" to Matt for defending themselves. This is the tactic of narcissists, abusers, and gaslighters. I would not have expected that from her. Looks and first impressional can be deceiving. She could not have gone soon enough. It was too late at that point. The date was ruined, and Matt just confirmed it when he cut the night short and cheated all the women out. They had every right to act like they did
  23. None of the girls looked happy to see her. I don't blame them. Why do they keep inviting her back? They could have used a "love/sex coach" or something. The franchise needs to stop bringing in past contestants for no reason.
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