JayBird74

Toya seems to have been given the main role of targeting the cast mate(s) into sharing a very difficult time in their life Under the guise of friendship. It’s a role given to 1 person on all the Bravo shows that I watch. RHOP - Ashley. RHOA - Sheree. Probably other shows too. It’s the BRAVO formula. Hopefully they will get rid of it. It’s really stupid. I used to love to watch Karen huger look a hot mess all by herself. However, after Ashley and the other two went after her for not divulging the truth about her finances and marriage I ended up siding with Karen and despising Ashley and crew. If this is Toya’s true personality then she needs more business of her own on which to focus. Just sad.

I see all that and Don Juan still grates. I seem to remember him from Season 3, or whenever Kandi's first season was, and he did not seem as animated or involved. If I am thinking of the same person, I actually liked him back then. Progress to more recent seasons and he could not let a scene go by without disrespecting Todd. Friend or not, Employee or not - he just annoys me. There have been several other side characters that have not annoyed me but for some reason he does. He probably has a Real Housewives contract and good for him if he does. As Kandi said, she is all about making money (or something like that). That definitely would explain the change in Don Juan's character and why she defends it.

I love Kandi too but Don Juan grates. Just last season he hated Todd, now he's jumping in women's conversations for him? Anything for screen time.