I don’t know. 75 and multiple falls, I’d be pushing for the downstairs bedroom as well. Sometimes the suggestion is better received from a professional rather than family. My parents were soooo stubborn and it did get out of hand. Once you break a hip it’s over. I also told my father in law, do YOU want to make these decisions, now, or wait until someone has to make them for you? Right now they have plenty of options to set up aging-in-place. When a crisis happens your choices are limited. I don’t have kids so I plan to be VERY proactive about my golden years.