One of my several objections to showrunners et al explaining afterwards is that I feel like they're trying to control interpretation and I resent it, because it closes off all sorts of fun discussions and ideas. Once the authority says X is X, even though X is clearly M to a good many viewers and B to some others, it shuts down everyone who doesn't see X as X. Don't tell me what to think about what I just saw and that I'm wrong because it isn't what you think I should think.
And, also, showrunner, you don't control everything that comes across on screen. That's what subtext is about.