Agree completely! If you decide that you must absolutely align with such a volatile player, you better be ready to be on 24/7 babysitting duty, like Boston Rob did with Phillip. Shirin really did not play this right, and to her credit she seems to admit to that fact in her post-game interviews. As much as she is a superfan, Shirin is way too intense and not socially adaptable enough to excel at Survivor. I think if she were to play 10 times, her downfall would be due to the same factors every time. I tend to have a soft spot for female nerds, because we are under-represented in TV and certainly in Survivor, but I don't need to see Shirin play Survivor again.
I really despise Abi's behavior : she's in her thirties and behaves like an immature high school girl from the mean clique. She seems to have no real concern for the damage her words and actions cause and worse, thinks it's totally cute to be a Brazilian Dragon or whatever. It's not cute and it's not endearing, except to drama-loving Jeff. It's downright selfish to be forcing everyone around you to bend to your whims while never giving anybody else the benefit of the doubt when they do something you don't agree with. She might be able to dampen this attitude in her day to day life but, in this stressful environment, it's pretty clear that IS the core of who she is.
Stephen started on the wrong foot and I think his anxiety will be his downfall. He seems unable to find safe ground and, unless he's extremely lucky, he's not seeing the merge. I'm sorry about that since I have a soft spot for Stephen because of a small moment from Tocantins : when Erinn comes back from Exile and they are all freezing in the rain, he made sure to bring his sweater for her and wraps her in it to keep her warm. Even in this first episode, you see him help the woman from the truck and into the boat. He just seems like a well-mannered, kind person who is probably his own worst enemy with the overthinking and anxiety. Savage is not my type of guy, but there's no denying he's doing a good job at leading Bayon and no one on his tribe seems to have any troubles with him taking the leader spot.