Personally I see Jana as a gentle soul, who is gentle with her children, and encourages them to be themselves. She's not a rigid blanket trainer. Her kids are "feral" compared to those raised by the meaner sister-moms. They are true to themselves.
I think Jana is a great mom!
Jill reminds me, looks wise, of one of my older sisters.. Who was, and still is, the favorite. Still, I can't hate on Jill too much.