I agree with that. I disagree with the premise that Bob was "stalking" her by finding out where she lived so he could bring her a pair of free compression socks, like he had promised he would.
There is some obvious stalking that took place on the second episode-- it was perpetrated by Abishola's greedy family!
Bob respectfully told Abishola's ridiculously intrusive relatives that he didn't want them arranging dates for him, he was only interested in how Abishola felt about it. She said --OK, they could meet, but only for tea-- but when she showed up at that bench at the agreed-upon time, she very rudely informed him that he could keep the tea and she wouldn't be seeing him anymore.
(Yes of course, that was Abishola's choice to make. But it doesn't make her a nice person!)
Abishola can do Abishola. I'll do me and find something better to do with my time.