I agree with a lot of what you’re saying, but I think you’re asking this particular episode to do a lot that is beyond its remit. The show was a parable about toxic masculinity. I don’t think it was prepared to offer solutions, just to show the horror of what is. And yes, individual men can be good and individual women horrible, but that’s beside the point. If anybody thinks the pressures that Annie was under going on her job before the meteor shower even began were an exaggeration, they are wrong. Women on a whole have to maneuver a minefield of sexism in their day-to-day existence that men on a whole just do not.