I'm not understanding why everyone, including Shannon, took what Lydia said to mean she was just like Vickie. She said you guys are acting almost just like Vickie.....and I took that to mean how they all (Shannon/Tamra and Vickie) were very defensive & seemed very hurt by the situation. When Lydia met with Vickie, she was doing the same talking over Lydia & getting all worked up while saying you don't understand what they've done blah blah. I think Lydia was just comparing both party's REACTIONS to her bringing up the subject. Not saying they were actually a lot alike. JMO
And if they hate Vickie that much and don't want to be around her, maybe they shouldn't do a reality show with her, lol. Obviously all these ladies are going to have to be together at some point in time so Lydia is just there to try & make that happen. Lol