misokinesia

It's the Netherworld/Nether region all over again 😂

Word of the season: amiable

Being lactose intolerant, I would have been more terrified of having to eat the ice cream than having to put up with a tarantula on me 🤣

I see a lot of people getting on Amanda for the ashes but I think what a lot of people may not be considering, or just missed, is that she lives in Louisiana but she was at her sister's place in Ohio(?) because she was leaving the kids there with her aunt while she went off to Romania. She also said something about how they were meeting her aunt at the airport and that her aunt would be taking the kids from there and watching them, so they brought everything, ashes included. It makes sense that she'd take them, then at least their dad can 'stay' with them while she's gone. For those asking about moving ashes around, I lost my husband almost 5.5 years ago to cancer as well. No kids. For the first week or so after I got his ashes back, yes, I did move them around the house with me. Mostly from the family room to the bedroom (on his side table), and back. Might sound crazy to some, but I felt guilty 'leaving him alone' after I finally had him back at home with me.

Ty reminds me so much of a manipulative, gaslighting ex - both in his dead-eye look and attitude - that I can't watch anymore of this season unless I hear he goes out.

Please let him walk her down the aisle, please let him walk her down the aisle... 🙏🤞

It’s Seattle Mike and he wants to know if “...you want the magic surprise?” 🤮. It’s as unsexy as you may imagine.

Angela, if your "clitorious" is on fire you may want to adjust the temperature of your bath water or seek the advice of a doctor..? Someone pass the brain bleach, please 🤢

Michael A's story has been very interesting for me to watch. I lost my husband to cancer as well, four years ago December; he was 34, I was 39. As a younger widow, I've found one of the most frustrating things (of many) about dating again is people around you who think it's their business to decide if, when, or how ready you are. I didn't go into it blindly and I'm sure Michael hasn't either. If he's decided he's ready, that's what matters. I absolutely understand why he chose to keep quiet about it around the house, why he wanted the guys to get to know him first as he was, without that 'widower' cloud hanging over him. He does seem like a sweet guy, and I'm sure he'll find what he's looking for if it's not with Katie. (...ahem...call me, Michael..? 😍). FWIW, I still refer to my late husband as my husband when I talk to people who a) know the situation already or b) it's not really relevant to the conversation and I don't want to see that look or feel the need to explain further. I would not do it in front of the family or friends of someone I was seeing, especially who didn't know the situation haha. I will, however, correct anyone who refers to him as my ex-husband, which happens more than you might think 🤷‍♀️

That little blocky head probably throws things off kilter too

Never have I ever wanted to put my fist through the TV more than watching Mike rocking back and forth on the porch, voice cracking, talkin' 'bout his Momma, and acting like he has no idea why Natalie isn't having a good time. Ugh. Something about that smug douchebag just triggers me haaard. @Mr. Miner you are perfection *swoon*. Is there a Mrs. Miner? 🤣

When it comes to the properties at Coyote SwamPass, I assume there are some restrictions involved in how far you can build a permanent structure from the property lines and the gas line easement, maybe even the swamp? I don't know if there was already a clearing in the lot for House #3 but I suppose there could also be restrictions on how many trees can be cut down, if any. In the trees may be the only rill option for that lot considering the size of the houses they're all likely going to "need", especially Meri because Meri. Not that I rilly blame her at this point. I say keep getting that TLC money until the end, then go your way!

What do these people really talk about, in some cases for years..? I had an LD relationship where we'd text almost every day, and one of us would always ask the other about dinner, etc. Hell, I talk about that with friends who live in the next city. Before I went to visit said LD, he asked me about what sort of things I'd like to have to snack on, made a list, went out for them, and then even took me to the grocery store after I'd arrived (and as a Canadian, a US grocery store was the most amazing thing.. all of the things I've seen on TV my whole life but we've never had up here!). He did lose points for taking me on a tour of the town after I'd just flow in though, I felt so sweaty and gross and I didn't think to pull a Darcy at the airport. My bff and I were having a post-show debrief today where neither of us had much to say about Tarik & Hazel, except that I did admit that for a while I thought Minty's name was Minnie. I tend to be looking more at my phone than the TV while I'm watching this show and they both say her name without hitting the T at all!

I swear they said he was living in the barn on the previous system. All this talk about Uncle Cousin Beau moving out...What Mike actually said is that Beau was going to move out "for a while." Even without the extra stuff we know about him, I don't think this is unreasonable. If Mike and Natalie do truly want to work on their relationship then it makes sense for them to want to be alone for a bit. Yes, when we first met Beau I'm pretty sure he was living in the barn as well. I'm guessing that either a) Mike let Beau move in after the world found out that his 'uncle' lived in a barn OR b) Mike usually lets him move inside for the winter. I'm guessing the barn is drafty..? When Beau was packing up, Mike also said that he would work on trying to get him back there soon, even if it was just into the barn.

Not a whole lot to add but a few things I do appreciate about Tayshia, which really stood out for me this episode: - She doesn't dole out the Bachelor handshakes - Her real lashes on the date with Zac C - Her complete lack of poker face Other things: Zac C has a Nick Viall lispy(?) way of speaking. Bennett's cute until he opens his mouth. Figuratively and literally...there's something about his teeth that bothers me. This one was heavy on the past trauma reveals! Yeesh.