Count me in the Comfort Show Club too. Frasier and the Golden Girls are both shows I love to relax and unwind with.
As for love interests, the term "opposites attract" works for Niles and Daphne. I may in the minority, but I actually like them as a couple and was so glad when they finally got together. Niles could be an intellectual dreamer and Daphne with her down-to earth manner could keep him grounded. I think they were a great match.
And I think they saved the best for last for Frasier. Charlotte and Frasier made a great couple, she was enterprising, sweet and smart. Frasier would obviously wear the pants in any relationship he was in, but Charlotte could clearly hold her own in that relationship without being overbearing.
Poor Martin. I don't think the writers ever found the right woman for him. Sherry was too crass for him and Ronnie was way to young and cute to settle for an old guy like Martin. If she went for an older man, it would have to be a sugar daddy situation and Martin was definitely not in that category.They didn't fit well together at all.