I understand. I am a 'soft butch' lesbian. Growing up, I always wanted to be a boy. When puberty hit, I liked the female parts of me too much. ;) I just didn't see her as trying to speak for anyone, I just saw it as Jenny being Jenny. People are still ignorant, but times are changing. Things are changing. We are getting there. I just don't want to get all militant towards someone who obviously has no ill will towards lifestyle choices. Pick battles wisely.