I'm no "expert," but I'm pretty sure these "experts" are terrible.
Monet and Vaughn are definitely not right for each other, but I think they could learn how to be better partners to each other if they weren't so damn selfish all the time. There are times in a relationship where it's important to think of yourself and put yourself first, but not every waking second of every day.
Is anyone else here familiar with the 5 love languages? I don't agree with all of it, but I agree with the idea that everyone has different ways they receive love. Often, the way they like to receive love is the way they give love to others, and sometimes it doesn't match. This can lead to conflict. The 5 love languages are gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch (the whole spectrum, from casual arm-touching to sex).
Gonna take a stab and say Vaughn's primary love language is acts of service. He wants Monet to show him an act of service (cook him dinner), so he performs an act of service for her (picks her up from the doctor). It's pretty likely that Monet doesn't recognize this act as a sign of love or affection; her primary love language is probably different. It doesn%u2019t cross her mind to do an act of service for him because that%u2019s not necessarily how she would show someone that she loves them. They don%u2019t need to have matching ways of showing love, they just need to understand that they%u2019re different and act on them.
