Pretty certain that everyone who watches this show has either had a Bethenny or Carole in their life, or has been a Bethenny or Carole. This is why these Bethenny vs. Carole debates (that’s putting it nicely) are so wrought with anger. There has been so much name calling of both of them by posters (gaslighter, narcissist, bitch, even see you next tuesday, yikes!) that it’s clear many of us see their fight through a highly personal lens. Friendships (and the end of them) can really hurt deeply.