I laughed out loud at this.
I stay at home with my kids, who are all now in school. My days start at 5am five days a week when I take my kids to swim practice before coming home, packing lunches, doing dishes, discussing current events with them and making sure everyone is appropriately dressed and packed for the day. Once they leave I immediately dive into my day which is not 6 hours of free time to watch TV, but rather a sprint to get multiple loads of laundry done, clean the house, run a variety of errands, some days volunteer at my kids school, keep the house decorated and presentable and then come home to prep dinner because from the time the kids get home from school until about 8:00 it’s off to numerous sports and activities before we come home to shower and eat a late dinner. There are many stay at home moms in our area and their days all look like mine. We are doing ALL of this, with minimal to no help from our husbands. Maybe you sat around watching TV when you raised your daughter but most stay at home moms aren’t able to spend their days that way. Shannon, by all accounts, has smart, engaged kids who participate in numerous activities and a beautiful, well-kept home where home cooked meals are eaten. That’s not the product of a mom who sits in front of the tv all day.
No it’s not “difficult” and not a job but it’s still work. Rest assured, my husband knows the amount of effort that goes into my day and he couldn’t do what he does if I don’t do what I do. That’s the price of alimony.