I love you for that. I want to have all of Xander's babies for saying it.
I liken my feelings about Sonny and WilSon to how I felt/feel about Twilight:
When I first read Twilight, I got caught up in the "romance" of it, etc... it was a lovely little story about a regular girl and her knight in shining fangs. Then as time passed, I saw it for what it was: a guide for making stalking and abusive behavior the norm.
WRT Sonny/WilSon: I got caught up in the LGBT aspects of it. I've always loved Will. I adored Chandler's portrayal of him. I thought it was romantic that Sonny was there