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Kail is one of those people who thinks her opinion is the only valid opinion. Maybe YOU would rather have a smaller home with a nicer interior. But interior details are a lot easier to fix than size. So *gasp* some people might actually prefer a larger home that fits their family well that they can renovate here and there than squeezing into a small home that they may grow out of with a "nicer" interior.

Yea this. Does anyone have any insight on this? Did something happen between them, or is it just pressure to be part of the group?? Because that bit about Kevin's wife and kids isn't just some trash talk, it's truly sick. Like depraved soul kind of sick. I have some vulgar friends, but I've literally never heard someone say something like that in real life. And this was his friend, someone he just prevented going on the block when everyone wanted him to. So confused. Ugh, these people.

I just watched the aftermath of the cinnamon fight on youtube. I don't have the feeds, but reading here, I know Matt and Raven get into these food fights sometimes... like, who does that?? I get that they/she's thing to get airtime, but I would feel like a complete imbecile getting into an actual food fight. I'm closer to Matt's age than Ravens, so I'm extra confused at Matt taking part in it. On the clip I watched, he's covered in cinnamon. He looks so stupid. 33 years old? How immature are you? Maybe my sense of humor is just different, but it's not something I would do or find fun. It's, to use Paul's word of the day in the clip above with Mark, bizarre.

I've been wondering, as well.

Omg, this "recipe," lol!!! And the reviews!! ?

Thanks! Just curious if it was a jealousy thing about the other girls looking at him.

What is bothering her about it?

WTG = Way to go

Not that I believe Raven's bs story anyway, but Matt's vitriol at Cody supposedly saying that he and Raven wouldn't work out because she can't have kids was a bit much, no? That's a valid (though understandably hurtful for the person who cannot have children) hill to die on in the mate picking process. It would be different if they were married and they found out she was infertile, and then he reacted that way. Or if his reaction included some derogatory language toward her. But to say that at the very beginning of a potential courtship is perfectly fine imo, and the person that feels that way and says it - one time and respectfully - isn't bad, or a "dickhead" or a piece of shit or whatever else Matt said. He must want to have a reason to say that about Cody, or must think viewers will see him as such a kind, compassionate guy coming to Raven's defense so passionately about that. (But let me reiterate, I totally think she made that up.)

RE the coffee, when I was pregnant with my first child, I quit coffee cold turkey as soon as I found out. So 1st trimester symptoms combined with caffeine withdrawal... it was rough! I definitely learned to wean off of coffee after that! Fortunately, I could sleep as much as I wanted. Being on BB, having to compete and talk game and be social, this definitely affects their game. That changes this seemingly benign prank into something bigger, and should have been stopped. Not the same thing, but if someone put laxatives into brownies for some people and they were constantly having to run to the bathroom, dealing with cramps, etc, I'm sure production would do/say something. Messing with food, especially adding or switching something in it, should not be allowed, period. I've never heard of doing this, such a good idea! (Though obviously rough at first!)

Yes, I thought the exact thing! So, I wasn't seeing things.

Duh, I know, but Matt is scarily abusive, and it was super apparent to me on this episode. DV is so much more than physical, and awful as she is, Amber's situation really reminds me of the DV victims who leave us scratching our heads at WHY won't she just leave. What stuck out to me first was how he was gaslighting her in the conversation we heard thought the foor, where she was yelling at him about the texts and he's all, calmly, "you're not well." He stops addressing the issue at hand and basically calls her crazy, because he knows it's her insecurity and that she might believe what he's saying. And then when the results were given to them and she's ranting and raving about the failed question and he, calm and laughing as though it's all a silly little thing, tries to act like she's being irrational and ridiculous. He's not as good as he thinks he is, because he was clearly nervous as hell when they were told he failed the question, rying to get the tester to cosign his B.S. ("but it could just mean a comment, right?"). I could practically see the wheels turning in his head about which tactic he was going to use to further gaslight Amber.

I agree that Jace probably just misses the video games and junk he gets to eat. But at this point, all that stuff likely isn't even enough for him to miss her place. I think Janelle saying how much he missed her vs her missing him/them missing each other is a combination of her narcissism and her "proving" to everyone what a great mother she is (that being why he missed her so much. Can't wait to hear her tell us how upset he is that he doesn't get to live with her full time after all).

When Erika was crying outside of the boat, you could really see the cakiness of her makeup. So shallow to bring up, but it always looks so flawless and since she has SO much on, I knew it had to look like that in real life. I had my husband listen to Dorit talk and try to guess where she's from. He said it sounded like she was trying to fake a British accent. She's fooling no one lol. Erika is a horrible friend. She was awful to Eileen. And poor Eileen: desperately proclaims, "let's take a moment to honor her son" (and to be clear, I do feel that police officers deserve to be honored) and Erika still continues to treat her like shit she just stepped in. She's mean. You can't turn on someone like that if you're as meek and demure as you want us to believe. And someone posted an article in another thread that said Erika left her son when he was 3, I think, to move to LA. If that's true, she can go somewhere with all that, "you don't know what I go through at night" *ugly cry* Of course I believe she worries about him, but up every night, wrecked with fear? If the article is true, I don't believe it, sorry. You can't move across the country from your toddler to chase fame and/or a sugar daddy, and try to convince me that you're the kind of mother who can say that and truly mean it. Rinna had to be drunk. The way she stuffed that piece of chicken in her mouth when she declared she was done talking lol. And the coke allegations, so out of the blue! So she's getting back at Dorit accusing her of being on drugs by doing the same? Ok?

Sheree and Bob's scenes look like terrible acting to me. But then I'm like, why would someone want to be portrayed as an abuser, is the allure of being on a tv show that strong? It just doesn't seem genuine to me. I believe what they're saying happened really did happen, but all the trying to get back together and Sheree crying and Bob feeling remorseful and distraught over how to get her to see how hard he's working.... So fake. I was kind of annoyed with Cynthia basically taking the blame for the demise of her marriage because Peter was all too happy to basically be like, "yeah, it was your fault. You didn't know how/didn't want to be a wife." Which ok, Cynthia is partially responsible for the failed marriage, but Peter has a large part, as well. Large. So, Phaedra trusts her good friend Porsha so much that she's the only one she shares the truly personal stuff with, but does she realize that the only reason Kenya knows she called her trifling is because Porsha read her that text?? Porsha could have given them the gist of the text without reading it word for word and throwing Phaedra under the bus. Yeah, Phaedra is fake and all that, but why wouldn't Porsha try to protect her from being in the hot seat again?