so much to talk about with this episode, but I can't let this one thing go as I experienced it so much myself when my children were young.....
Dear Kali,
You OWE it to Isaac to be positive about his time with his father. You don't have to love that he is going and I get that it is hard to say good-bye, but he is going to pick up on your emotions and your attitude over his trips to visit his father and he does not deserve to have to watch you fall apart over him leaving, especially since it is not his fault or his decision that he is going. Suck it up and keep your emotions in check, even if you have to fake it, and be positive for him. Remind him (and yourself) that he will have fun with his father and will get to do new and different things and that the six weeks will fly by and that he will be home in no time. It is okay to tell him that you will miss him and that you love him, but don't dwell on it. When you talk to him while he is gone ask him what he is doing, don't focus on what he is missing at your house as that is not fair to him. Over time the seperations get easier and you will be doing what is best for your son. He deserves a relationship with both of his parents!
Signed,
Someone that has been there