Oops I obviously am not very good with quotes! Last night I rewound Janelle's statements about Gabriel, just to see if I would feel the same way- and I did. I just imagined Gabriel watching the episode, and listening to all the fun and positive things being said about his siblings, only to hear his parents mention in numerous ways how difficult he has been. That's why the "I was afraid I would have another Gabriel" bothered me so much. Not to mention, he is still growing up; it's not like she is talking with him when he's an adult and laughing about what a pain in the butt he was. Words carry so much power, and I was really surprised that that was what she chose to say about her son on television.
Yes I am probably being over sensitive; for me, imagining my daughter hearing me say the same about her would be so hurtful. I was surprised to hear Janelle say that when the purpose of the interview was to celebrate each child.