Y'all know me. All these people living together, bring kids to live w/men who aren't their father. I don't get it. Two adults can do what they want (tho I'm gonna still be judgmental), but women, leave your kids out of your affairs until you get married.
Plus - this guy is hardly father material. He's sick. He's demanding. Your daughters are getting no idea of what a man/father should be to his wife or to his kids. I do not get the attraction, and I certainly don't see the concern for the children - which should be primary on mom's mind. She needs to go to school, take care of the kids, and live her life. I have to wonder if some of these women don't lose out on better relationships because they are so bogged down being caregivers to obesees they can't see the opportunities around them.