In all of the great performances, and the way the story was handled, I cannot believe I forgot the thing that enraged me the most (other than Phyllis trying to make her reunion about her poor pathetic life, and Malcolm didn't seem that interested, so that was good): Cane!
You pathetic writers! Lily is too distraught to speak. Of course that is okay. But while they are trying to get her to speak, she turns around to Cane (who thankfully is not sitting in her row), and she and Devon encourage him to speak. He says, no, Neil would not want that, and Lily says, he loved you too. And then that piece of shit gets up to speak and makes it all about how he was a loser and Neil accepted him anyways. At least, that is what I heard. I imagine he said something about how Neil taught him about parenting.
Ugh! There were so many people who should have spoken before Cane. Drinki, for one. Even Ash. Victoria. They had Jack and Pricktor as the friends who spoke.